Long-term, happy relationships are a rare achievement.
Arguments, routines, indifference - this is the norm for many couples.
Most people stay together simply because they've grown used to tolerating each other, have settled for it, and learned to find happiness elsewhere (friends, lovers, online games, and so on).
Passion, tenderness, romance - these are, for many married couples, just fond memories.
Why is that?
Because we're SELFISH, and we're ALWAYS RIGHT.
We don't know how to truly listen to each other; it's more important to get our own point across. We're not willing to accept that our partner has a right to be inconvenient sometimes. Instead, we're willing to nag and criticize until they change (which probably won't ever happen). We know their weaknesses and are ready to push those buttons when we feel hurt ourselves. But all of this has nothing to do with love, respect, or long-term happiness together.
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